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1. Successful love is the "Love at First Sight". It is quick & not expensive as U can settle quickly without much dating & spending on ur Love !!
2. Unsuccessful love takes a lot of time of persuaytion, spending lot of dows on her food , dress, cinema tkts etc , moving around , going to places- all at ur expense but getting procrastinated( deferred) .
3. If the man is wise, he'll shift to another woman who gets entangled in Lv quickly.
4. Love may be one-sided & may continue for life long. Whn U were a teen ager, U might be in lv wth the Bhabi next door & may continue to love her ( may be without her knowledge) till she remains beautiful
5. So it is always better to get married ( love marriage or negotiation marriage) & Love Ur wife & continue to Love her only thru-out Ur life !!