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Have you ever got a heavy heart, when you couldn't express frankly your genuine viewpoints on a topic, not because of your incapabilities, but because of the numerous chains and constraints surrounding you? How will you manage such crisis?

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Asked by Muktha Radhakrishnan, 29 Jan '10 12:02 pm
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Hi Muktha >> Being a social fellow, sometimes (or many times for a guy like me) man simply cannot expect himself living the life of Revolutionary. He is not a Robin Hood or a Cromwell who were widely known in expressing frankly on any damned issues eventually it had pinch of saneness or otherwise. For an ordinary citizen, while living and leading life among his mates, there has been numerous and certain chains and constraints surrounding where he has to keep interests (though not necessarily vested) of many parties involved in topic/issues/discussions and even against his own will, he couldn`t express frankly his genuine view points for fear or loosing something vital in return. Well, people may call it (and some do) as an action of cowardice, but in the process of time, it proves better to keep the garden quiet and in blooming with new zeal. Only time helps recovering from wounds under such circumstances.

Since you expect personal examples of this genre, I would surely wish to give ...more
Answered by Indra Pawar, 30 Jan '10 01:48 am

 
  
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When situation is such a grim and tight it is better to keep quiet and observe the progress.
Answered by roopa, 29 Jan '10 05:08 pm

 
  
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Yes I have faced this situation. In such a case I simply keep silent as I would not like to attract doubts, controversies and misunderstandings. Inside it feels bad not to express my sincere views but sometimes life teaches you to be diplomatic and you just close your lips.
Answered by Mitali Choudhury, 01 Feb '10 02:48 pm

 
  
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Allways known for calling a spade a spade I have never had any such problems unless I chose to restrain for good reasons.
Answered by gem mina, 29 Jan '10 12:29 pm

 
  
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I do come across such situations in my life. My attitude remains the same...'Use your intellect before expressing your genuine viewpoints.' This is because no two cases are the same. They differ and therefore, must attract different response.
Answered by kishore malhotra, 29 Jan '10 12:13 pm

 
  
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Yes I have gone through this and by accepting that yes it was not my day
Answered by rajnikant raiyarela, 29 Jan '10 12:10 pm

 
  
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Yes .It happens many times.I need good relations with my sorroundings. Some times misunderstand happens. But its not infront of me. I like to give detailes but in angry mood i use some harsh words.In that time i postponed to give reply, so i try to avoid the meeting . In between the time i analyse my mistake and the powers of prob also reduced
Answered by ala, 29 Jan '10 12:08 pm

 
  
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Mainly it happens when u r interrupted in between by some one,but a person who is capable of expressing his/her views and continue after a while.
Answered by krishna bhojwani, 29 Jan '10 12:07 pm

 
  
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Keep quiet
Answered by abhijitdey, 29 Jan '10 12:03 pm

 
  
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Yes
and it was most tragic
Answered by anil garg, 01 Nov '10 09:12 pm

 
  
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