Like all the important people in our lives - family and life partner - friends too come with their sets of positive and negative points. Since there are no perfect friends or crystal balls to predict which particular friend remain most committed, you can only keep learning the vagaries of friendship as you go along. Hence, being forewarned is forearmed, as the saying goes. What sort of friends do you have committed to you or one time passerby???
I have my own version of this one sir.
we sure are no perfect beings...none can deny dat,but can we deny being faulty???
being negative and being biased?
can we ,with absolute faith and certainity claim to havr done all right things in life???
so when we are not too certain of our own intents,behavioural pattern and traits.....how can webe jugdemental about anyone???
least of all about those,whom we love and admire for the reason specific??? dat too because they are what they are....and that makes them distinct and special......and after all this,after the tears,the heartbreaks,the jubiliations and the messy experiences together..................how can one judge???????
how can one ascertain,.what is right and what is wrong???
not with friends.....never......now and forever!!!
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One doesnt make friends one recognises them,and I've recognised my friends,one should accept their friends with their plus and minus,as time goes by try to turn their minus into plus,for eg if one of your friends is into smoking or drinking,try to show him the right path not by force but by love.I'm lucky so far as I've committed friends and its a real boon I guess.I guess its more of how much one is committed to their friends also ,its a give and take relationship!!!!