I saw many Males here in US & India ignore or dump their parents in favor of newly wed Wifes! Does that mean such Males are weak by nature or character?
Or is it something else? How do you explain this in the present times?
I don't ...more
ladies are said to be more passionate and caring then how can they behave so selfishly. It is very ridiculous to see some men going down to any level to keep their wife happy !!
I found some of my cousines changing very fast after marriage. It was very difficult to digest when thinking about thier earlier attachment to parents. So who is responsible ?
I noticed in a lot of profiles of girls on matrimony that they are looking for somebody who can keep them happy !! I sent funny msgs to some of them :)
MANY (not saying all but MANY) households in India raise their kid with nothing but as a set of expectations & standards. In TOO MANY HOUSEHOLDS raising a kid is taken as a joke. Sometimes makes you think if we should introduce a reproduction license in India.
In school, it's ALWAYS "get 100 marks" WHy? To go to a college? And there? Get 100 marks? Why? To go to a good job in an MNC. Why? To get money & buy a Bunglaw in Venice Beach or near Harrod's. So, it was only the venice beach bunglaw, 6 digit bank account all along :) For the ENTIRE CHILD'S LIFE.
In the whole process not a SINGLE ounce of national values or national pride is given. It's CLEARLY visible. How else do you explain the demographic fact that in UAE there are more Indians than local Emirati Arabs- despite given second class treatment?!
Too many kids are raised in a VERY single faceted way, wherein their ENTIRE childhood is geared around nearing institutional academic perf ...more
care of by both father and mother, that record works out well when he is marries.
This applies to ladies also. Moreover, gossip-less house generatesa values.
Parenting is an art and exercise.
We should not forget the fact that after the breaking away from our old traditional joint family system, the influence of neglecting the parents have increased.So we have to take that too into consideration.
But waht ever happens, a well balanced husband never ditches his parents and rather will try to keep them all intact and maintain a good relationship.That shows his calibre, greatness and understanding ability.No wife will be against ...more
This i really a decline of present ages and this is all prefixed by god