Joint families in nowadays does not be successful, i am in favour of joint families only. But, in practical it does not presist.

Aap k partner ko Kin's ki jarurat advice lene k liye pad rhi he, it means sumthing is wrong in u? ho skta he ki uski nazar se aap ki advice negative ho or Kin's se positive ho, ho skta he ki aap apni jagah pr shi ho, jo ki aap k better half k point of view se wrong ho. Hamesha decision lete time ya fir advise lete time aap ki partner ko consider kro, us ko yeh yakeen dilao ki us k decision se advice ka aap pr bhot asar padata he. aap k partner ki (Kni's se hisaf se chalane ki) yeh adat jate jate thoda time jarur lagega par impossible nhi he, pyaar or vishwas se it is possible. Sbi angle se socho lekin positively, agr negatively sochoge to haath me kuch nhi ayega. Basa Basaya ghar ujad jayega, Apane Partner ke jagah par khade rah kr socho,Us par pati hone ka ya fir patni hone ka haque mat dikhao. apni policy us pr jabardasti follow kr ne ko mat bolo. Agar wo galat he to use pyar se samzao wo jarur samzegi, Try it.

Tell her to live with them if they r more important than u

Cancerous grwoth can be removed but in the case of a person it is better to allow them to join together officially in the presence of all family members so that the grieving partner can go for another suitable candidate.