2010/2 - LIFE:
How do you visualise life?
Do you often pause to dwell on the disappointments of the past
you forget about the bad phases in the past and try to be content with the way it is right now?
Ideally one shud not dwell on the past and move on...learning from the disappointments...try to construct a better tomorrow.
But practical picture is a bit different...many of us hav some past experiences which hav left such deep wounds that everytime theres a fresh new disappointment in life or in others lives also the mind goes bak to that past feeling the same pain waves. So may be after enduring many such pain waves in Life one learns to lead the ideal Life...it can be that time heals all wounds..like this only.
Then again ppl who forget the bad patches too soon and remains content with present happinesses shud ideally be foolish coz they may hav overlooked some hardearned lesson that they cud hav learnt by enduring and facing the responsibility of their past mist ...more
Woh , so far so good for preface but now where is the corner or the angle in this vicious circle ? ( not cycle )............ ha ... I got it . Starting with a Daniela Gallo quote Life: a cycle. A series of events, meetings, and departures. Friends discovered, others lost, Precious time, wastes away. Big droplet tears are shed for yesterday, but are dried in time for tomorrow, until all that remain are foggy, broken memories of a happy yesteryear.
Mistakes are painful when they happen . Yes , it bring tears of bitter memories . But I have now learned to filter out the bitter memories and nurture the sweet nostalgia . It will keeps my memories shining an ...more
But then sometimes u cannot help but go out in a rage esp. when u do business in Ind where u have 0 inherintence capital (I have inheritence but I don't invest that in biz I try and generate As if I had 0 property) and EVERY 99.9 percent of the clients u meet try to tantalize u and push 4 a credit term .
I say "I want a North Korean Purchase Order contract not a South Korean style one." and people agree to it....and then try a donkey punch just is a BIG time boner killer. I Dunno if u r familiar w/ economics of both Korea's. BUt if ya need a crash course DPR Korean order (When it was there in INdia during their pre crash times) = cash and carry love and marry. Here is the deal:
Kim see good. Kim like. Kim buy. Kim no like. Kim no buy.
South Korean business contract: First for a small volume u get tantalizingly good cash and carry pa ...more