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Hi LG, My marriage is fixed and the engagement got over. My fiance had told me that she had an affair 6 years back when she was doing her graduation. She told me that she had indulged in physical relationship with that guy, multiple times but not all the way. She used to have this at his home when no one is there. She told me that both of them have slept half nude for 1 hr and have not gone all the way in sex (What i meant is sexual intercourse). I doubt that they might have gone all the way, because it looks strange to believe that a couple on bed for 1 hr doing foreplay not going all the way

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Asked by renjith p menon, 12 Feb '08 02:30 pm
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Renjith, Trust is the basis of any relationship. Having a suspicion and being too insecure and possessive or inquisitive can wreck havoc in your relationship. You should appreciate that your girlfriend has come out clean about her past. Let bygones be bygones. It is all water under the bridge. There is no point in opening a can of worms. This can affect your relationship. Don't overreact to such issues. Everyone has a past. You cannot undo it. Instead put it on the back burner and start off with a clean slate.
Answered by Doctor Know, 12 Feb '08 02:48 pm

 
  
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didnt u have sex before think and proceed for marriage it all depend on how u respond
Answered by manmohan, 12 Feb '08 02:32 pm

 
  
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GO AHED AND TACK HER US YOUR WIFE......BECUASE NO BODY CAN ABLE TO SAY THIS.........AFTER MARRIGE SHE ALSO THINK ABOUT ONLY YOU.................AND ANOTHER GIRL NOT TOLD YOUR THEIR PAST AND IN YOUR ABSENS DO THIS KIND ACTIVITY WITH SOME OTHER SO FORGIVE HER AND TALL HER " I LOVE YOU " CLOSED HER PAST CHEPTER...........

SWEET SANDEEP
Answered by sandeep, 20 Feb '08 01:54 pm

 
  
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talk to self and decide on it.........
Answered by Rahul Deshpande, 13 Feb '08 05:23 pm

 
  
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Dear You have to trust only your heart and no one advise as in such situation if you are not self convinced then you have to take the burden lifelong.
If you need any other advise you can contact me
dr_rahulgupta@yahoo.co.in
Answered by drrahulgupta, 13 Feb '08 11:59 am

 
  
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if she has told on her own,,, why to disbelieve
Answered by dhanendra kumar jain, 13 Feb '08 09:37 am

 
  
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godd she is so frank with you.trust her if she is now swearing loyalty to you.
Answered by jagar singh, 13 Feb '08 06:19 pm

 
  
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Past doesn't matter. Be thankful that this girl is honest and doesn't want to hide anything from you.
Answered by bringaar, 13 Feb '08 01:52 pm

 
  
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Shaadi ke baad bhi usi ko degi
Answered by Ashwani Verma, 13 Feb '08 10:54 am

 
  
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Go ahead and break the engagement if some can take guarantee to find a sati savitri virgin for you.
Even if this girl is telling half truth, appreciate her courage and honesty. She could have kept mum and got married quitely.
I think bury the past and look forward for a happy married life with this girl. She is more likely to remain loyal and faithful in future than some one else.
Answered by doctor, 12 Feb '08 09:31 pm

 
  
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