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I don't like my husbands flirtuous nature. "innocent flirtations" is OK for him or having members of the opposite sex as close friends. It feels like cheating to me though and I am very hurt by it. Can I call it a cheating?

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Asked by gal, 06 May '10 09:11 am
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If you and your spouse have talked about this subject and you have openly expressed to him that you are uncomfortable with flirting with and close friendships with members of the opposite sex, he should respect your feelings on the matter. The only way to define cheating is if you feel your expectations of your spouse have been violated. When your expectations are not being met the emotional outcome is feelings of betrayal. If those are the feelings you are having, then, yes, your spouse is cheating. I suggest you sit down and have a discussion with your spouse and you both come to an agreement as far as what is appropriate and inappropriate behavior as far as contact with a member of the opposite sex.
Answered by sumati gayki, 06 May '10 09:33 am

 
  
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Main hoon na..............................?
Answered by vinod parkash, 06 May '10 11:49 am

 
  
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If a women loves truly.. she will be hurt easily...Man has to be careful in understanding her emotions and respecting them....The least he can do is flirt in front of her ??? How rude and cruel it is.... IT means he does not understand what feelings are ????
Answered by Monty, 12 May '10 05:31 pm

 
  
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Contact me if u want right one
Answered by Shiva, 08 May '10 12:32 pm

 
  
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Yes to an extent
Answered by rajnikant raiyarela, 06 May '10 02:11 pm

 
  
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Talk plainly on the issue
Answered by dhanendra kumar jain, 06 May '10 10:03 am

 
  
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You also plan to have a good time with some one else.
Answered by prabir sanyal, 06 May '10 09:58 am

 
  
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How is it cheating ? He is doing it openly. A cheater would behave as if he is the sweetest thing on earth, and that u r the only lady he knows etc etc., but when he says he's going 2 London on business trip, he'll be in Bangkok on soap bar.

U r encouraging him to cheat by being amoral police. Does he mind if u have males as close friends? I wouldn't think so.
Answered by A Moin, 06 May '10 09:19 am

 
  
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Try flirting with some one before him,he might realize his mistake
Answered by yashashri tawde, 06 May '10 09:17 am

 
  
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He seems like a big flirt..............keep vigil
Answered by gaurav shokeen, 06 May '10 09:16 am

 
  
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