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I am getting married to the one I love on Dec 27th (of course, with parents' permission). The problem is, the guy and I belong to diff socio-economic backgrounds. From early age, he was alone (after losing his parents) and was taken care of by his Mausi (to whom he is v attached and indebted to for her kindness). Out of possessiveness, she calls him everyday and asks him to treat me well. But, I don't like her 'good' interference? My guy consults her for every decision. Why is marying me then, he shd marry her if he asks her every thing. what to do. Shd i brk it?

Tags: parents, relationships, early age
Asked by Aashka Khanna, 04 Dec '10 09:51 am
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How OLD is SHE ??? Wait for HER ************ !!!! (I HATE these ALWAYS-CONSULT-ME-PEOPLE)

Problem SOLVED !!! Nodding head loosens it often !

SR
Answered by Shiva Reddy, 04 Dec '10 10:14 am

 
  
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Never , as break up is not the solution, the situation tht u r facing is faced by almost all the grls within the indian household, , with time and love ur 'would be' will understand how to mange , his mausi 's possessiveness is but natural, it will pass away with time, once she get to know tht u give equal respect and imp to her too.
Answered by suparna, 04 Dec '10 10:05 am

 
  
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This is the problem with our society .The ahsaan done is never ending .U should have thought this before marriage as this will never end and u will have to find out some solution for this forever
Answered by krish, 04 Dec '10 11:27 am

 
  
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You are wrong and your laguage too. See everybody here is saying so. You should not marry him if you do not know how to beahave with elders. However a person can change her taking opinion from good persons if she really wants to become a wise person.
Answered by prabirb, 04 Dec '10 10:10 am

 
  
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To my openion You need a slavary husband. Which is not possible, unless you are very reach.
Answered by Nashir Khokhar, 04 Dec '10 10:09 am

 
  
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Firstly mind ur language u cannot a good wife because u do not respect a person who has given care to ur husband and helped him when he is most needed that. Girls like can be good girlfriends but never a good wife better break the marriage because u will make his life hell
Answered by Satya Pandey, 04 Dec '10 10:00 am

 
  
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Have a straight talk with the guy and make the mausi your friend if you are really interested
Answered by rekha agarwal, 04 Dec '10 09:59 am

 
  
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I think you better have a talk with some doctor
Answered by rajnikant raiyarela, 04 Dec '10 09:54 am

 
  
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Consult a councellor, maam i think he/she would be the best person to assist you. And more important have a honest talk with your would be, it's really not a big thing :)
Answered by simon waaras, 04 Dec '10 09:53 am

 
  
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Nothing harm in that. He will understand you well. Your marriage life will be fine too. Happy married life well in advance.. Aashka
Answered by Deepak, 04 Dec '10 09:53 am

 
  
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