I am 21 yrs old kashmiri girl.i love a guy who is 22 yrs old,a bihari by caste.we both are brahmins.the only difference is in our language.i fear that my parents will not accept him as my husband just because he is not a kashmiri.what should i do?we both are going to complete our b.tech in electrical engineering.please help me how to convince my family?
If you love each other so much, why not get married in a registrars office? You can tell them as soon as one of you gets a job and can take care of the other. Your parents may resent it for some time, but in overwhelmingly most cases, they come round when they find they can do nothing about it. Why wait?
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First try to settle down both of you. Get some good jobs and then you can tell your parents. Iam sure they will not object you just for the language. Any parents wants their child to be happy with a good family and good guy. Prove to them that he is good guy and u can live happy with him. Iam sure u will get positive response from them. All the best.