All failures in LOVE, are due to PEOPLE failing, mainly because of the interference of MIND and EGO, and of course the ignorance of the ways of love!
Love NEVER fails, nor is it BLIND, only lovers fail because of their blindness!Any com?
Personality incompatibilities are also there. When we are entering into a love relationship, we mask ourselves to suit the other person and the other person does d same 2 suit us. When the "spark and flair" of the relationship fades away, people get tired of putting on masks, and start removin' 'em off. This is when matters get ugly, in a love relationship.
I think camaraderie is a MUCH MUCH more purer form of a relationship than is 1 formed between 2 lovers.
It is ironic that we can easily become jealous of our closest friends. Jealousy often occurs when there is a feeling of separation and competition. We need to learn to be happy at the success of others; it only when we can feel a sense of oneness with others achievements that jealousy will remain far away.
Also, we need to trust our partner - a suspicious mind is very poisonous. It is better to be trusting rather always suspecting infidelity or disloyalty. Others will be rightly discomforted if we mistrust them. If our partner lets us down, it is not our fault. But, if we suspect, because of our own insecurity, we are bound to create serious problems in our own ...more