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After being with someone for 5 yrs , you come to know you are cheated and you break up ? how to control ur mind now

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Asked by new moon, 05 Mar '13 03:33 pm
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Don't take hasty decision....wait and watch...
Answered by vijay, 05 Mar '13 03:44 pm

 
  
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Try to control your mind...the person who cheats on you is not fit to be with you at all...carry on with life and try to divert the mind into something that has your interests and soon everything will be fine...you will see a better life is waiting for you very soon
Answered by Annes, 05 Mar '13 03:43 pm

 
  
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Yes moon moon I can understand your pain but that is life...U cant depend on a ungrateful partner and friends..Just forget and forgive and dont brood over the past...as I have also gone thro same pain so I understand how U r feeling...all d best...regards farhaan
Answered by Farhaan, 05 Mar '13 03:36 pm

 
  
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U control your mind that the other person was a loser not you and that if that person did not have any respect or love for you does not make u guilty. Someone far better is in store for you , u just have to wait for the person to come bye. Losing your sleep over losers is just not correct.
Answered by Juliana, 05 Mar '13 03:35 pm

 
  
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Take it easy, and leave him, waise bhi tamaam umrr koi bhi saath nahi deta hai, sab ke sab just for a time being ke liye hote hai, chaahe wo aapke parents ho ya close friends,
Answered by Psycho, 05 Mar '13 03:35 pm

 
  
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Too difficult situation
Answered by anil garg, 05 Mar '13 08:24 pm

 
  
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Betrayal happens from those closest to us. Judas betrayed Jesus not with a knife, but a kiss. Ironically, we hurt and are hurt by those we love the most. It is not the bite of the wolf that hurts us. It is the bite of the lamb that really hurts. Dont return betrayal with a betrayal. A betrayer faces devastating long-term consequences and that is the last thing you need right now. Start where you are and dont get frustrated about where you are not. Know that you control your recovery and you can change how you feel.
Answered by Smriti, 05 Mar '13 04:07 pm

 
  
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You ale ready decided that you got cheated and broken relation also.
what you have to control now??
just move on and enjoy your new life with new people.
all the best.
Answered by badari, 05 Mar '13 03:55 pm

 
  
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