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A SERIOUS QUESTION

suppose in a arrange marriage....... a boy keeps a condition to the girl
that he can only accept the hand of a girl only if she is ready to quit
all her social....... net works, college friends, and far off relatives..........
accept of that close relations........

she shouldnt continue her job..... becoz he is earning well
has good status name , fame, everything a girl can dream of

should she accept the condition or not???

Tags: sex, girl, relationships
Asked by anushka desai, 13 Aug '12 12:20 pm
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I think the boy lives in dictatorial paradise. He probably wants to convey, she will have to work like a slave, think like a slave, and behave like a slave. Such people never give unconditional love ..They will put condition everytime. and make the life of the girl like hell. Dont do job, work in home.. is the first command.. Then why select an educated girl ? Go for a matric failed girl.. Such people are afraid of their confidence. They fear competition from a wife.. They fear taunting from mother or sister.. " Joru ka gulam'' or so.
Answered by subhash, 13 Aug '12 04:14 pm

 
  
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I guess not, that's just a sign of a CONTROL FREAK - and yes it can be treated at a PSYCHOLOGIST ;)P
Answered by simon waaras, 13 Aug '12 12:54 pm

 
  
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Very tricky
Answered by anil garg, 13 Aug '12 01:42 pm

 
  
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No,she should not accept,and if she wants to accept it she should put all the same conditions to him.Marraige is increasing our relatives ,families and friends not decreasing them for 1 person
Answered by yashashri tawde, 13 Aug '12 12:49 pm

 
  
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In today's world if a boy is so conservative and has come up with such a condition I really don't think the girl should even consider the boy for marriage, leave alone accepting the conditions.
Today its these conditions, tomorrow there will be some more and at that time the girl may feel dominated and find herself suffocated in the relationship. So its better she thinks of the future and the upcoming problems......
Answered by payal, 13 Aug '12 12:34 pm

 
  
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This not arranged. Arrangement kahan hai. She can accept with conditions of her own about divorce settlements
Answered by Trivial Pursuit, 13 Aug '12 12:30 pm

 
  
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Certainly not.. what happiness will the golden cage he has bought for her give her, what solace will the silence of her loved ones given her??? Even if it is a love marriage, a woman should NEVER compromise so much in any relationship! Such narrow mindedness will only give birth to a generation of weak hearted people.. Should say no.. chahe woh koi Raja Maharaja kyun na ho!
Answered by Juliana, 13 Aug '12 12:26 pm

 
  
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According to Me No and Never. Faith, Trust and Unconditional Love Should be There for Building any Relationship.
Answered by Mahesh Sharma, 13 Aug '12 12:26 pm

 
  
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No ....... she shouldn't take everything granted as going forward the boy may put more and more conditions ...... and make her life HELL ......... in this case the boy never trust to anyone and very suspicious ........
Answered by pradeep mishra, 13 Aug '12 12:24 pm

 
  
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Mai sirf inta jaanti hu ki...... rishton ki buniyad vishvas pe rakhi jati hai Sharton pe nahi. jo rishtey sharton pe bante hein vo ya to tut jate hein ya bojh ban jate hein jinhe nibhane se insaan katrata hai.
Answered by Latika, 13 Aug '12 12:23 pm

 
  
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