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Sobriety doesn't have anything to do with leading a good life. Leading a good life has something to do with helping others and being kind to the poor. U can have 20 girlfriends, watch porn, listen to heavy metal, take drugs, and still be kind to the poor and disadvantaged. Or u can be completely sober and be completely selfish.
I find that sober people in general tend 2 b more self centered and money oriented than people who partake in vice's.