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My Boy friend wants to have sex with me...i have said its not safe before marriage....he get upset sometimes...Now i also want to have sex but want safe sex...can you tell me what should i do to have safe sex.

Tags: marriage, sex, safe sex
Asked by abc efg, 16 Feb '07 11:08 am
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IF U R OF THE AGE OF GETTING MARRIED THEN DO SO AND THEN HAVE SEX.SEX IS ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THINGS GOD HAS CREATED.WHY IS YOUR SO MUCH IN A HURRY TO HAVE SEX.ALL I CAN SAY IS DONT HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE .NORMALLY BOYS ALWAYS WANT TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE AND THEN LEAVE THE GIRL FOR ANOTHER GIRL.IF U ARE A VIRGIN THEN YOUR BOYFRIEND WILL BE AFTER U OR HE WILL TREAT U LIKE DIRT ONCE U HAVE SEX WITH HIM.TELL HIM VERY FIRMLY TO HOLD ON SINCE EVEN U WANT TO HAVE SEX BUT ONLY AFTER MARRIAGE .HE WILL BE UPSET NOW BUT WILL ALWAYS RESPECT U FOREVER WHEN HE REALISES WHY U TOLD HIM TO HOLD ON .HE WILL ALWAYS KNOW YOU ARE A ONE WOMAN ONE MAN.NORMALLY NOWDAYS GIRLS ALWAYS WANT TO TRY TO HAVE SEX WITH MORE THAN ONE JUST FOR FUN.TELL HIM TO HOLD ON AND HAVE FUN ON THE WEDDING NIGHT
Answered by WYNNE PAUL, 16 Feb '07 01:04 pm

 
  
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use condom before sex
Answered by Ashish Vashisht, 16 Feb '07 11:14 am

 
  
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As per my view It is good to avoid pre marital sex. Try to convince him and convinced yourself also. Everyone wants to have fun. keep patient and It is switer later.
Answered by sibasankar nayak, 16 Feb '07 11:17 am

 
  
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dear abc efg, if he really loves you ..............he will wait for you till you both marry .....
take this as test to test his love for you.............if loves you sure

then he will wait till you agree.....never force you and get upset with you......try to convince him.....
Most of the time they say...do u believe me or not ?
you answer him ...you do beleive only if you pass this test....

there is old saying says ...........

Boys do love for sex......
girls do sex for love.....

don't prove that....
Answered by madhukeshwar t, 15 Mar '07 09:05 pm

 
  
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what you said is the correct one because you tell him that we can have a sex after our marriage because this is India
Answered by santhosh kumar, 16 Feb '07 11:11 am

 
  
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first u tell me are u agree or not or ru love with her ya only make a friendship for sex .ask ur boyfriend why u make a friendship to me for only sex or make a good relation.are u mad if he said to you i don't have money and ask for u money and said theft then what ru doing.
Answered by brijbhushan kapil, 11 Mar '07 05:20 pm

 
  
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To have a safe sex u should get married as fast as could be possible.
Answered by shrinkhala, 04 May '07 07:26 pm

 
  
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Avoid pre-marital sex. If he is your friend he will understand, else he just trying to use you.
Answered by Harish Swamy, 17 Feb '07 07:21 am

 
  
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Dear abc efg, pls avoid, if x likes apple and he try try try if he get the taste of apple and he decide that this is not my taste, i will try my taste. Pls be a good friend but before marriage if u fertilize. avoid
Answered by Lakshmi Bai, 16 Feb '07 11:52 am

 
  
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I say that, u dont do sex with him... Some boys think gls are sheeps.. he first talks nicely.. then make sure that u are not leaving him in friendship.. then he lightly asks for SEX.! ..See, there were several foxes under sheep's clothing. (bahar naadaan.. andar se uska maksad kuch aur..!) ...What i can say is VIRGINITY is a greatest strength of a girl like u. ..Ok, say, u agreed sex with him and had it.. enjoyed it., (imagine); ... Then he thinks that u surrenderd urself to him.. and may blackmail you.. ur family, for his requirements..! If you oppose, he may say openly this secret.. ! Oh, then just think, wat will be your state of mind.. that time ! No.. I dont want such situation come to even my vicked enemy also. ..One thing is that. If u had sex, u hav to listen him.. Wo khadda bana raha hai.. tum mat giro usmain.. please.. If u still want to enjoy sex, then its upto u. U need not ask anybody..
Answered by Kiran, 12 Mar '07 09:23 pm

 
  
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